Navigating The Journey Of Pet Loss And Grieving

Losing a pet can be one of the worst experiences pet owners face. Our pets are not just animals; they are beloved members of our families who bring joy, companionship, and unconditional love into our lives. Pets have the ability to connect with us on an emotional level. They are there for us during our happiest moments and our darkest days. Whether it’s a wagging tail greeting us at the door or a gentle purr while we relax, their presence is a source of comfort and joy. When they pass away, the grief can be profound and overwhelming, even bringing with it feelings of guilt. Understanding the grieving process and finding ways to cope can help ease the pain of this loss.
Understanding Grief
Grief is a natural response to loss, and it can be felt in a variety of ways. It is important to understand and allow ourselves to feel each of these emotions. Some of the most common emotions felt when losing a beloved pet include:
Sadness: the heartbreak that accompanies the loss of a pet is most often the first emotion and the strongest. Our pets have meant so much to us that the feeling of losing them is sometimes overwhelming. It is essential to allow yourself to experience these emotions because the road to healing can’t begin until you acknowledge the sadness.
Anger: It’s common to feel anger towards the situation, ourselves, or even the pet for leaving us. We all know that our pets don’t live long enough. Even if they had a wonder 20 years with us, we still wish it could be more. This is the emotion that I struggle with the most since we only have pets in Laber of Love for a short time. I am angry that we didn’t find them sooner, that they suffered until them came to us, that we didn’t have more time. Again, let yourself feel this way. Heeling will come as you remember the good times that you were able to give your pet. You were there for them for the most important part of their life.
Guilt: Many pet owners experience guilt, wondering if they could have done something differently to prevent the loss, to all the pet to live longer, to be in less pain. I feel this every single time I lose a pet. I ask myself over and over if I did enough. Or if I gave up too soon. But by again reminding myself of the good times, of the reasons I made the decision to euthanize the pet, that I ended their pain, that they are now whole again and feeling only joy and happiness – those are the reasons I can heal the wounds. Let yourself feel all the emotions, even the hardest ones.
Loneliness: The loss of a pet can create a void in our daily lives, leading to feelings of isolation. Let yourself feel this loneliness that only your beloved pet could fill. But know that one day, that hole will be filled again whether it is by people or another pet, you will feel whole once again. What helps to heal my broken heart is welcoming a new lost soul into my home and heart. The sooner the better. That may not work for everyone; you have to find what works for you in the timeframe that works for you.
Relief: In some cases, especially if a pet was suffering, there may be a sense of relief that they are no longer in pain. It is ok to feel relief. The decision to euthanize your pet was made for a reason, and whatever that reason was it was the right decision for you and your pet. Remember that, hold on to that as you grieve.
These emotions are all part of the grieving process, and it’s important to allow ourselves to feel and express them. There are many ways that people can and have coped with the loss of a beloved pet. Here are just a few:
Acknowledge Your Grief: Recognize that it’s okay to grieve. Allow yourself to feel the emotions that come with the loss. Don’t rush the process; healing takes time.
Create a Memorial: Honoring your pet’s memory can be a therapeutic way to cope. Consider creating a scrapbook, planting a tree, or holding a small memorial service. These acts can help you celebrate the life of your pet and keep their memory alive.
Talk About It: Sharing your feelings with friends, family, or support groups can provide comfort. Many people understand the bond between pets and their owners and can offer empathy and support.
Seek Professional Help: If your grief feels overwhelming, consider speaking with a therapist who specializes in pet loss. They can provide guidance and coping strategies tailored to your situation.
Take Care of Yourself: Grieving can take a toll on your physical and mental health. Make sure to eat well, exercise, and get enough rest. Engaging in activities you enjoy can also help lift your spirits.
Consider Adopting Again: When you feel ready, think about welcoming a new pet into your life. While no one can replace your lost companion, a new pet can bring joy and companionship back into your home.
Finding Comfort in Community
Many communities have pet loss support groups, both in-person and online. These groups can provide a safe space to share your feelings and connect with others who understand your pain. Websites and forums dedicated to pet loss can also offer resources and support.
The loss of a pet is a deeply personal experience, and everyone grieves differently. It’s essential to honor your feelings and give yourself the time and space to heal. Remember that your pet will always hold a special place in your heart, and the love you shared will never fade. By acknowledging your grief and seeking support, you can navigate this difficult journey and eventually find peace in the memories of your beloved companion.
Nicole Laber, Cofounder and Fospice Mom

How Senior Cats Needs Change

Many of us have experienced the stress of an older cat suddenly becoming seriously ill. When an illness appears unexpectedly, the situation can be overwhelming. But here’s the hard truth: Often, that illness didn’t develop overnight—it may have been building for some time without obvious signs. This reminds me of Ernest Hemingway’s famous quote about how people become bankrupt: “Two ways. Gradually, then suddenly.” Often, illness in senior cats follows a similar pattern—subtle at first, then suddenly more obvious. We know cats are notorious for hiding signs of illness and they aren’t going to talk to us – so what can we do about it?
For one, we should recognize what normal aging changes look like in a senior cat. Secondly, we know changes are likely to be subtle early in the course of disease. Finally, we can work in partnership with our veterinarian to identify disease early, when treatment options are much more rewarding.
Normal and Abnormal Aging
One of the most common aging changes in senior cats is arthritis, affecting over 90% of older cats. It’s easy to assume that a decrease in activity—such as losing interest in play, sleeping more, or avoiding stairs—is simply a part of aging. However, these behaviors could actually signal joint pain. It is rare for a cat to actually limp or cry out with arthritis, so look for changes in your cat’s activity, sleep schedule, or preferences to indicate that they may be in pain. Sometimes, arthritic cats will have difficulty accessing litter boxes or food dishes. Keep this in mind when noting changes like appetite changes or inappropriate litter box habits. Older cats often experience coat changes due to difficulty grooming hard-to-reach areas. As a result, they may groom less frequently, leading to mats or dandruff.
To help your senior cat adjust to these changes, consider the following:
Provide ramps or stairs to make it easier for them to access favorite spots.
Ensure litter boxes are easily accessible, possibly by using low-entry boxes or relocating them.
Brush your cat more often to prevent matting and help with grooming.
Be mindful of their diet—avoid overfeeding, and offer enrichment through food puzzles and hunting games to keep their mind sharp and weight in check.
Regular Veterinary Visits and Lab Work
One of the most important aspects of senior cat care is ensuring they receive veterinary exams at least twice a year. These may need to be more frequent if your cat has a known medical condition. Veterinary teams are experts in detecting diseases early. Some common examples are below:
Heart Disease. Often, when heart disease is obvious at home, it is in a dire emergency. During routine senior exams, your veterinarian can detect irregularities like murmurs or abnormal rhythms that often indicate heart disease or other problems like an overactive thyroid or high blood pressure are developing, long before congestive heart failure or other serious complications develop.
Dental Disease. Cats are incredibly adept at hiding their dental disease until it is quite severe because of the strong desire to appear “normal” as a prey animal (yes, they hunt, but there are lots of things that will eat them too!). Though, the reality is that many of us will still eat with tooth pain because we need to survive. Like heart disease, when dental disease is obvious it is likely very severe, like abscesses or tooth loss. Chronic inflammation — of any kind — has been shown to be a huge risk factor for the development of many diseases in people. This is probably true for our pets too – in a large study, cats with good dental health lived significantly longer than cats with poor dental health, and were also less likely to develop other problems! Your veterinary team is skilled in helping senior cats receive safe, professional dental cleanings and treatment.
Metabolic Diseases. In addition to physical exams, regular diagnostic testing is a vital component of senior cat health care. Take it from my example – though my cats are constantly examined by me (to their occasional annoyance), they routinely get lab work performed. Many common age-related diseases—such as kidney disease, diabetes, or thyroid issues—don’t show clear signs until they’re more advanced. Routine testing helps detect problems, like kidney disease, diabetes, or hyperthyroidism early, long before symptoms appear. With many diseases, early intervention can literally be the difference between days or years with our beloved cats. Not to mention, it benefits the bank account when the solution is medications or diet changes instead of hospitalization.
So what can I do?
The good news is that you have the power to help your senior cat thrive. Watch for subtle changes in behavior, address arthritis early, and collaborate with your veterinarian to catch health issues before they become serious. With the right care, your cat can stay comfortable and healthy into their golden years.
Ken Brunson DVM, Board Member

The Benefits Of Getting County Dog Tags In Ohio

As a dog owner in Ohio, one of the most important responsibilities is ensuring your pet is properly licensed. In Ohio, this is achieved through county-issued dog tags. While this might seem like just another chore, there are several valuable benefits to getting your dog’s tag every year. In this blog post, we’ll explore why obtaining county dog tags in Ohio is a smart decision for both you and your furry friend.
1. **Legal Requirement**
In Ohio, every dog three months or older must be licensed annually. County dog tags help you comply with this state law. Failure to get a license can result in fines or penalties, so it’s crucial to stay on top of the registration process. By getting a dog tag, you’re ensuring that you’re following the law and avoiding any unnecessary legal trouble.
2. **Improved Identification**
Dog tags serve as an important identification tool. If your dog gets lost, the tag provides a quick way for anyone who finds your pet to identify them and contact you. In many Ohio counties, dog tags include the dog’s license number, which can be traced back to the owner. This can greatly increase the chances of a lost pet being returned home safely.
3. **Helps Local Animal Shelters**
The fees collected from dog tag registration go toward local animal shelters and pet-related initiatives. By purchasing a dog tag, you are directly contributing to the welfare of animals in your community. The funds help provide care for stray animals; support adoption programs, offer low/no cost vaccines, microchips, spay/neuter programs; and assist with pet education and awareness campaigns. It’s a small way to give back to the local animal welfare system.
4. **Quick and Easy Process**
Getting your dog tag in Ohio is a straightforward and simple process. You can often apply online, by mail, or in person at your county auditor’s office. The annual cost is typically low, and the process is designed to be convenient for pet owners. Plus, the tags are durable and designed to last throughout the year, so you don’t have to worry about frequent replacements.
5. **Peace of Mind**
Having your dog tagged and properly licensed provides peace of mind. Knowing that your pet is registered with the county and that you are in compliance with Ohio law helps alleviate any worries about potential fines, lost pets, or animal control issues. It also ensures your pet is part of the larger community of animals, which can lead to a safer, more organized environment for pets and their owners.
Obtaining county dog tags in Ohio is more than just a legal formality—it’s a step toward ensuring your dog’s health, safety, and wellbeing. From supporting local shelters to ensuring your pet is easily identifiable, the benefits of licensing your dog are numerous. Take the time each year to get your dog’s tag, and rest easy knowing that you’re doing your part to keep both your pet and your community safe.
So, whether you’re registering for the first time or renewing your dog’s tag, make sure to check your State’s licensing requirements and get your dog properly tagged today!
Nicole Laber, Cofounder and Fospice Mom

Veterinary Mythbusting

Myth 1: Any CBD product will work. 

With increasing marijuana legalization and interest, there’s been an explosion of CBD products for both people and pets. However, marketing has gotten ahead of science. There is promise for certain conditions like pain and epilepsy. But, other claims like improved coat health appear to have limited evidence. There is wide variation in quality and effectiveness because of the lack of oversight. Compared to prescription medications, CBD products are supplements with significantly less oversight. As a result, there are many substandard products on the market. According to Cornell University’s College of Veterinary Medicine, “a study that evaluated 29 CBD products for pets and found heavy metal contamination in four of the products. The research team determined that two products had no cannabinoids in them. Of the remaining products, only 10 were measured to have a total cannabinoid concentration that was within 10% of the amount that they claimed to have on their label.” 

Use careful consideration in selecting a product. Given the abundance of approved, well studied, and regulated products available for most conditions, any CBD product should be viewed as supplements in a therapy plan. 

Myth 2: Canned pumpkin helps treat diarrhea.  

The fiber in canned pumpkin is vastly overrated compared to fiber supplements or therapeutic high fiber diets for pets. In fact, to feed the same amount of fiber as a therapeutic diet or supplement to a medium sized dog, you’d have to feed about 12 cups of canned pumpkin per day! For a cat, it’d still be a large amount – 2 and ½ cups! The volume alone will fill up your pet, which will mean they will miss out on getting other key nutrients in their diet. When pets improve while being fed pumpkin, it is likely a result of the increased water intake and the fact that many cases of acute diarrhea improve within days on their own. Better sources of fiber include unflavored, unsweetened versions of Benefiber or Metamucil or therapeutic high fiber diets. The type and amount depends on the size of the pet and what type of diarrhea they are having – always check with a veterinary professional! Any pet that seems ill, has repeat diarrhea cases, is a puppy/kitten, or has recently been around other cats or dogs should be evaluated by a veterinarian. 

Myth 3: Fleas can’t get pets indoors or in the winter. 

This risk of fleas is lower in the cooler months, but it’s growing. The vast majority of cats I see in practice with fleas are classified as “indoor only” — and there are virtually no dogs that never go outside. If we were able to jump like fleas, we could jump over skyscrapers – it’s no wonder they can get inside! Also, because our winters are warmer now, there seems to be no decrease in the number of flea cases in dogs or cats in the winter months. 

Myth 4: Benadryl will help itchiness. 

Benadryl (and other similar medications like Claritin) are antihistamines. They block the action of a molecule called histamine that causes a lot of allergy symptoms in people. But, histamine plays very little – if any – role in pets’ skin allergies. Our pet’s itchy skin is better compared to eczema than our seasonal allergies. There are a variety of medications that better control these symptoms. These should be paired with strategies to help reduce or avoid exposure and sensitivity. 

While we’re at it – pets are more likely to have food allergies to a food they have eaten for a long time, not a new diet! Also, proteins trigger allergies and pets become allergic to the protein regardless of the diet quality. 

Ken Brunson DVM, Board Member

Mammary Cancer Awareness

What better time to talk about mammary cancer in dogs than National Breast Cancer Awareness Month? After all, mammary cancer in dogs is very similar to breast cancer in humans. The difference, though, is that mammary cancer in dogs is many times preventable. Imagine if there was a way that we could prevent 99% of breast cancer diagnoses? That would be amazing, wouldn’t it? Unfortunately, we can’t do that for humans, but we can do it for dogs!
Spaying a female dog before her first heat cycle has been proven to be over 99% effective in preventing mammary tumors. A simple surgery can prevent so much suffering down the line. A small scar that will be forgotten by the dog in a week.
Not only does spaying your dog prevent most mammary tumors, but it gives many other benefits as well. One of which is no accidental or unwanted litter of puppies. Help control the very out of control pet population; please spay and neuter your pets.
For more information on preventing, diagnosing, and treating mammary tumors, here is a great article.
Nicole Laber, Cofounder and Fospice Mom

Signs Of A Senior Pet

Watching our pets grow older is a bittersweet experience. The longer they’re with us the more memories we develop and experiences we share, but it’s hard to watch them age. We owe it to them to address their needs and make sure they’re well cared for given all of the support they provided us over the years. Recognizing the signs that your pet is aging is crucial to providing the best care in their golden years. Here’s how to tell if your pet is entering their senior years, what to expect, and when to be concerned.

Understanding “Dog Years”

Have you heard the saying that “one dog year equals seven human years”? While this rule of thumb offers a rough idea, it doesn’t capture the differences among different breeds and sizes and doesn’t really apply to cats at all. Smaller dogs tend to live longer than larger dogs and, often, they age more slowly. Cats more closely “follow” small dogs. For example, a 10 year old small dog or cat is about 56 years old, but a giant breed dog like a Great Dane at 10 years old is 80 years old. 

When is My Pet a Senior?

According to the American Animal Hospital Association (AAHA) and the American Association of Feline Practitioners (AAFP), pets are considered senior at the last 25% of their expected life span. This depends on breed and size, but the following guidelines are generally used:

  • Small dogs (under 20 pounds): 10 years old + 
  • Medium dogs (21-50 pounds): 7 years old +
  • Large dogs (51-90 pounds): 6-7 years old + 
  • Giant dogs (over 90 pounds):  5 years old +
  • Cats: 10 years old + 

What is Normal Aging?

The age guidelines are based on when some expected changes are likely to be detected in your pet. Age is just a number, and we all undergo this process at different rates. However, we expect certain changes to occur in our pets. This includes:

  • Changes in vision and hearing: Mild cloudiness in the eyes and some hearing loss are typical in dogs but less common in cats. 
  • Weight changes: While many pets maintain their appetite, their activity tends to decrease to gaining weight, but losing muscle mass is the most common outcome. 
  • Reduced mobility: Joint stiffness and slower movement are extremely common. In fact, more than 90% of cats over the age of 10 have arthritis. Older pets might take their time getting up and moving around or have difficulty accessing parts of the house. 
  • Behavioral changes: They may be less interested in playing or more anxious about new situations. Sleep cycles or house training may change. 
  • Skin and coat changes: You might notice gray hair, especially around the muzzle or face.  Their coat might be duller or that may groom themselves less frequently. Sometimes, pets may overgroom an area that is painful. 

Distinguishing Normal Aging from Disease

While many changes are part of normal aging, others might indicate underlying health issues. Here’s how to tell the difference:

Normal Aging:

  • Gradual onset of symptoms. These may be only noticed by looking back at previous photos or videos or noted by someone who has not seen your pet in a while. Or, you may realize one day that things have changed without necessarily thinking about it beforehand. 
  • Mild changes in behavior and activity. If there is a dramatic change, something else may be going on. 

Potential Health Issues:

  • Sudden changes in behavior, weight, or appetite
  • Severe mobility issues or pain
  • Significant changes in drinking and urination
  • Persistent coughing or difficulty breathing

If you notice any of these signs, it’s essential to consult your veterinarian. Conditions like arthritis, diabetes, kidney disease, and dental disease are more common in older pets but can be managed effectively with proper care. The best prevention for many of these diseases is twice yearly senior wellness exams for your pet. Our pets cannot speak for themselves, but veterinary professionals can work with you to combine your knowledge of your pet with their expertise to determine what can be done to help keep your pet comfortable and happy. 

Home Care for Your Senior Pet

Providing the best care for your senior pet involves a balanced diet, moderate exercise or enrichment, a consistent and predictable environment, and lots of love and attention. Adjusting their diet to accommodate lower energy levels and ensuring they stay active without overexertion can help maintain their health and prevent additional wear and tear on their joints. While some pets may perk up with a new companion, this may not always be the time to adopt a younger pet. 

Remember, every pet ages differently. Pay attention to their needs and changes, and always seek veterinary advice if you’re unsure whether a change is aging or a sign of something else. By staying informed and proactive, you can ensure your loyal pet enjoys their senior years comfortably and happily.

Ken Brunson DVM, Board Member

Helping Create A Healthy Bonded Pair

As of 2024, 66% of U.S. households (86.9 million homes) own a pet. Over one third of Americans (35%) have more than one pet. As pet lovers and owners, we all know someone, if not ourselves, that has more than one pet that has been together since they were quite young.  This is what could be known as a bonded pair. A bonded pair will depend on each other in different ways;
  • They tend to wait for the other one to eat and make sure the other one is getting food/treats; they often share food and toys.
  • They show signs of affection such as cleaning the ears, licking the face, etc.
  • They have lived together for an extended period of time.
  • They might get particularly stressed or anxious when they are separated for any reason.
  • They feel the need to play a role among each other, dominance or submissive.
As pet owners, we might see this as a relationship that just happens and is natural. This may be, but is each pet living a fulfilling life? How is your bond with each pet? The time will come when one has to live without the other. Or an unfortunate event might happen that will leave them having to live apart.
There are a few simple things that can be done to enhance the quality of your pack for you and each pet.
  • Train each pet individually. Take the time to work with only one pet at a time.
  • Separate walks and playtime.
  • Discover individual “jobs” for each pet according to their strengths and enjoyment. e.g. going to get the mail, car rides to the gas station, pet store visits, any regular activity that can include your pet.
  • Taking turns for affection.  e.g. cuddling, grooming, sleeping
Take the time to find out what your pets’ strengths and weaknesses are. This will also create a bond between the 2 of you and build confidence in your pet.
This does not mean that your pets can’t be great companions. This will help with their current relationship and help them to establish a well balanced healthy pack with your guidance.
All too often a bonded pair will find themselves needing a new home. Rehoming one pet is a tall order let alone a pair, if your pets are individualized the chances for a safe, comfortable transition into a new home will be better for everyone involved.
Chastity Crowder, Cofounder and Fospice Mom

Taking Responsibility For Your Pet

Today’s topic is a sensitive subject, but it is one that we deal with on a weekly basis here at Laber of Love. We have to say no many, many times to pets in need at Shelters because we don’t have the funds or the foster homes for all the pets that need us. We also have to say no to individuals who have lost a family member and have nowhere for that family member’s pet to go. Unfortunately, we have to say no to these pets and stay true to our mission, which is dedicated to rescuing pets that have found themselves in Shelters at the end of their lives. We say no to rehoming requests because the person has started a new job, had kids, is moving, and has many other reasons. It is heartbreaking every time we have to say no for the sake of the pet; I would love to live in a world where we can say yes every time. Or better yet, a world where we are no longer needed. However, we currently live in a reality in the pet world where Shelters are overwhelmed. Rescues are overwhelmed.
What can be done? Everyone needs to take responsibility for their pets. They need to spay and neuter; this will stop the endless cycle of unwanted litters, unwanted kittens and puppies. Spaying or neutering a dog or cat is much less expensive than trying to feed and provide Vet care for a litter. It is less stress on a dog or cat than going through pregnancy, birth, and raising their young. It is much less stress on the humans too.
People also need to understand a pet is for life. Not until they move, until they have kids, until they get a new job, until they get married, or until the pet gets too old. When you adopt a pet, you are taking responsibility for a life. Please consider that responsibility and plan for it. I understand that extreme circumstances happen, but everyday life should not get in the way of the responsibility of pet ownership.
Owners also need to plan for what will happen to their pets after they pass away. Will a family member be there to take care of the pet? Will a trusted friend? We have seen so many times where a pet is left alone with no options, and it is heartbreaking to see every time. There are many ways plans for pets can be made along with the other planning that needs to be done. Below is an article that gives more information on how to plan for your pet’s future without you in it.
Please help the Shelter and Rescue community. You can do your part in keeping your pets safe, healthy and with you. Spay and neuter. End this cycle that we are currently in. We are overwhelmed, we are tired, and we cry over your unwanted pets. We cry every time we have to say no to a pet in need, but there is only so much that we can do. We have to be careful to not take on more than we can handle ourselves. We need your help.
Nicole Laber, Cofounder and Fospice Mom

Caring For Deaf Pets

Introduction
Caring for a pet with hearing loss can be a challenging yet rewarding experience. As pets age, like humans, they may lose their hearing. Sometimes, they may encounter a health problem or injury that causes hearing loss. This post will guide you through recognizing if your pet is deaf, understanding the needs of deaf pets, and offer practical tips and product recommendations to improve their quality of life.
Understanding Deafness in Pets
How does it occur?
Deafness in older pets can occur due to a variety of reasons including
● Normal age related changes (presbycusis)
● Ear infections, especially if long term
● Certain ear medications or ear cleaning products
● Excessive noise exposure
● Direct injuries, including aggressive ear cleaning
How can I tell if my pet is deaf?
Signs that may cause suspicion include
● Not responding to verbal commands
● Not adjusting their ears in response to sounds
● Being startled easily
● Not waking up until physically touched.
Discuss any concerns about your pet’s hearing with your veterinarian. However, to help the conversation, you may consider testing. There are two tests available that can further help you determine if your pet is deaf. The website http://www.PetAcoustics.com offers a home hearing test that you can complete. However, if you are unsure or need appropriate documentation (for example, in a young dog that’s not expected to be deaf), there is a medical test that can be performed by veterinary specialists at Ohio State.
Recognizing the signs of hearing loss early helps you adapt to better suit your pet’s needs.
Caring for a Deaf Pet
Home Environment
1. Safety First: Ensure your home is safe for a pet that cannot hear dangers approaching, such as cars or other animals. Secure fences and gates are a must if your pet spends time outdoors. If your pet got loose, it is especially important that they have a microchip because it may be difficult to recall them!
2. Keep Them Close: When outside, keep your deaf pet on a leash or in a secured area to prevent them from wandering off. Remember, they cannot hear danger signals or calls to return.
3. Use Visual Cues: Replace verbal commands with visual ones. Hand signals, flashlight signals, or even simple gestures can communicate with your deaf pet. The adage about teaching an old dog tricks is not true – they can learn! Pair a treat with the appropriate signal when your pet does the requested behavior; they are likely to begin associating the behaviors.
4. Vibrations: For larger dogs especially, creating vibrations on the floor by stomping can alert them to your presence. This can help to reduce their anxiety and prevent startling them.
5. Discuss Needs with Visitors and Family: Remember that startled pets may react out of fear. Care should be taken with children or others that may have health concerns that make bites especially difficult.
Product Recommendations
1. “Deaf Pet” Signs: Signs are a helpful clue to neighbors and others that verbal communication will not work for your pet. This can help them provide extra caution when in your driveway, for example.
2. Vibrating Collars: These can be used to get your pet’s attention or call them back to you without needing them to see you. Brands like PetSafe offer remote-controlled vibrating collars that are gentle but effective – these are NOT the same as “shock” collars.
3. Reflective Gear: For those times when you’re out with your pet in low-light conditions, reflective harnesses and leashes can help keep them visible and safe.
Connecting with Your Pet
Maintaining a physical connection through petting, grooming, and cuddles can reassure a deaf pet. They rely more on physical touch and smell to feel safe and connected.
Conclusion
Adapting to the needs of a deaf senior pet might seem daunting, but with the right tools and a bit of patience, you can help make their golden years comfortable and happy. Remember, the love and care you provide are what matter most to your pet. Take it from me – my cat, Olivia (16 years old!) has been deaf for years but is happy and comfortable!
Ken Brunson DVM, Board Member

The Facts About The Birds And The Bees

Have you gotten a dog or cat and wondered when to get them spayed or neutered? Let’s look at the facts. Female dogs have their first heat around 6 months, and cats can get pregnant as early as 4 months. There is no exception to this rule. This also includes the law of attraction. Unaltered female animals attract unaltered male animals; it’s how nature works.
For those of us who think we are the exception to the rule, why chance it?
Why chance the possible medical complications that your pet could experience?
Why chance unforeseen behavioral issues?
Why chance an unwanted liter?
Why chance contributing to the overcrowded shelters?
Do you want your pet to live longer?
Do you want a well behaved pet?
Do you want to leave a legacy for the next generation of pet owners?
Do you want to provide the best option for a healthy life for your beloved pet?
There are facts to this point;
The number of pups born each day drastically overtakes the number of human babies that come into the world, with approximately 1.2 million pups to 360,000 babies. That’s roughly 3 times as many puppies as humans!
Intact (unneutered) male dogs represent 80% of the dogs presented to veterinary behaviorists for cases of dominance aggression.
Sterilizing a cat/dog reduces their urge to roam and decreases the risk of contracting diseases or getting hurt as they roam. Surveys indicate that as many as 85% of dogs hit by cars are unaltered. Intact male cats living outside have been shown to live on average less than two years.
The average lifespan of spayed and neutered cats and dogs is demonstrably longer than the lifespan of those not. A University of Georgia study, based on the medical records of more than 70,000 animal patients, found that the life expectancy of neutered male dogs was 13.8% longer and that of spayed female dogs was 26.3% longer. The average age of death of intact dogs was 7.9 years versus a significantly older 9.4 years for altered dogs.
Feel free to read the links attached above for a few more interesting facts that people might not consider when making the best decisions for their new forever pet.
As always, Laber of Love Pet Rescue is grateful for the opportunity to live out our mission with all of you. Thank you!
Chastity Crowder, Cofounder and Fospice Mom

When To Euthanize?

The hardest decision I have to make for the pets in my care is when it is time to euthanize. But I feel that decision is the final, most loving gift that I can give them. I believe in euthanasia as a way to relieve my pets from further suffering. To allow them to be at peace and be able to rest without pain once again. I never make the decision lightly or without serious consideration. It is a decision that is never made without discussion with my husband and our Vet. If the pet is in Laber of Love, at least one more board member is involved as well.
In the end, my decision may not be the same as anyone else’s. That is what makes the decision to euthanize so difficult. There is no standard to tell you it is time, no definite checklist to follow to tell you it is time. Euthanasia is a very personal decision that each owner must make. It is a personal decision that is made for each pet. What is quality of life for one pet can be vastly different from another.
Euthanasia is a gift that we give our Laber of Love Pet Rescue pets as a final gift. It is a decision that we rely on our fosters to be heavily involved in since they live with and love their pets. It is a process that they are never alone with though, we are with them through every step. Our Vet partners are with us too.
If you are questioning if it is time to euthanize your beloved pet, keep in mind that your trusted Veterinary is there to help with your decision. Talk to family and trusted friends. But remember, the decision is yours. No one can make it for you; you know your pet the best. You know if they are still enjoying their life or suffering. The decision that you make will always be right if you make it with the best interest of your pet in mind.
This article provides more information on how and when to make this decision. Many other articles provide assessments or checklists to help determine your pet’s quality of life.
Nicole Laber, Cofounder and Fospice Mom

What Is Librela

About 8 months ago we noticed that our 6 year old giant schnauzer was having issues moving after getting up from her sleep. This issue persisted, and she appeared stiff and in pain. Initially, we thought it was her hips that were causing the problem, but after a visit to the Vet and some X-rays, the doctor confirmed she was suffering from arthritis in her mid-back.
The doctor initially prescribed carprofen (Rimadyl) to help with her arthritis pain, but that medication came with possible side effects to her liver and kidneys. She would need blood testing every 6 months to monitor the function of those organs.
The Vet then suggested a new medication that would not require any type of follow up testing and was a once a month injection. That medication was Librela. We decided to give the Libreal a try, and our giant schnauzer had her first injection in December 2023. We were told that it may take 1-2 months to see any benefit from the medication. To our surprise, within 3 days she was acting like a new dog, and the stiffness she had been experiencing was gone. Since then we have been back for an injection each month, and she is doing very well on the medication.
If your dog is suffering from the effects of arthritis, it is definitely worth trying to help your dog live a happier and healthier life. While there are side effects to this medication, it’s been our experience that our giant schnauzer has not been affected by them.
As always, please consult with your Veterinarian to weigh the pros and cons of this medication.
Information from the FDA on Librela
The U.S. Food and Drug Administration approved Librela (bedinvetmab injection) to control pain associated with osteoarthritis (OA) in dogs. Librela is the first monoclonal antibody (mAb) the FDA has approved for use in dogs. The FDA approved a mAb for cats on January 13, 2022, which was the first mAb new animal drug approved by the FDA for use in any animal species and the first treatment for the control of pain associated with OA in cats.
OA is the most common form of arthritis in dogs; it is estimated that it affects at least 25 percent of dogs at some point in their lifetime. OA is a degenerative and painful condition of the joints in which the normal cartilage cushion in the joints breaks down. Eventually, the bones in the joint rub against each other, causing pain, decreased joint movement, and sometimes the formation of bone spurs or other changes in and around the joint. OA continues to get worse over time; however, Librela can help control the pain associated with the condition. Bedinvetmab, the active ingredient in Librela, works by binding to and inhibiting the biological activity of a protein called canine nerve growth factor (NGF), which has been found to be elevated in dogs with OA and is involved in the regulation of pain. When bedinvetmab binds to NGF, it prevents the pain signal from reaching the brain.
Two field studies were conducted to evaluate the effectiveness of Librela – one in the United States and one in the European Union. Both studies enrolled client-owned dogs diagnosed with OA. Half the dogs received Librela and half the dogs received a sterile saline injection every 28 days for a total of three doses. Before treatment and on various days throughout the study, owners used the Canine Brief Pain Inventory (CBPI) assessment tool to measure the severity of the dog’s pain and the degree to which the pain interfered with the dog’s daily activities. The weight of evidence from the two field studies demonstrated that Librela is effective at controlling pain associated with OA in dogs when at least two doses are given 28 days apart.
Librela is only available by prescription from a licensed veterinarian because professional expertise is required to properly diagnose pain associated with OA in dogs, administer the injection, and monitor the safe use of the product, including treatment of any adverse reactions. Librela is given by subcutaneous injection once a month and dosed by weight range to target a minimum dose of 0.5 mg/kg.
The most common side effects seen in dogs treated with Librela included increased blood urea nitrogen (an indicator of kidney function), urinary tract infection, bacterial skin infection, skin irritation (dermatitis), rash (erythema) or pain at the injection site, vomiting (emesis), and weight loss (anorexia).
Veterinarians should advise owners about the possible adverse events and side effects before using the drug. The FDA encourages dog owners to work with their Veterinarians to report any adverse events or side effects potentially related to the use of any drug, including Librela.
Librela injectable solution is supplied as a sterile buffered solution of 5, 10, 15, 20, and 30 mg bedinvetmab/mL in single-use vials containing an extractable volume of 1 mL of clear solution.
Librela is sponsored by Zoetis, based in Kalamazoo, Michigan.
Rob Jameson, Board Vice President

The Importance Of Dental Health

 

February is National Pet Dental Month; this month serves as a reminder for pet owners to prioritize the dental health of their beloved pets. Just like us, our furry friends require regular dental care to maintain their overall well-being.
During this month, let’s take the opportunity to check in on our pets and pay attention to their oral health, not just their teeth. Their mouths, including their teeth and gums, play a vital role in their overall health and quality of life. It is through their mouths that they interact with the world – eating, playing, and communicating with us. Therefore, it is crucial that we treat their oral health as an integral part of their overall care.
I encourage you to consult with your veterinarian to learn more about how to keep your pet’s dental health in check. They can provide valuable guidance on dental care routines and recommend appropriate preventive measures. Additionally, consider scheduling an annual dental cleaning for your pet if necessary. Regular dental check-ups can help identify any potential issues early on and prevent them from escalating into more serious problems.
At Laber of Love Pet Rescue, we unfortunately come across many pets that have suffered from neglect, including their dental health. This neglect often leads to two outcomes. The first option is a costly dental cleaning procedure involving extractions. The second option is even worse – pets whose neglected health prevents them from undergoing anesthesia. Neglected teeth can harbor bacteria, which can have detrimental effects on the lungs, heart, kidneys, and liver. Sadly, we currently have three pets, Ruby, Tiny Tim, and Boyfriend, who fall into the latter category. Due to their heart or lung conditions, they are not suitable candidates for anesthesia at this time. As a result, they have to endure the pain caused by dental disease, as we are unable to clean their teeth and remove the affected ones. Tiny Tim and Boyfriend face difficulties in eating normally and require special diets. Moreover, their dental issues can worsen their underlying health conditions. We closely monitor their health to ensure they do not develop upper respiratory issues due to the bacteria in their mouths. In case of any complications, they may require frequent antibiotic treatments.
On the 15th, Rose will undergo a much-needed dental cleaning at Troy Animal Hospital. Given the prolonged neglect she endured, we anticipate several extractions. After the procedure, she will return home the same day, happier and able to eat easier.
I encourage you to take advantage of the services provided by our wonderful local veterinarians and have your pet’s teeth checked. Your pet will undoubtedly appreciate it! For more information on your pet’s dental health, please refer to this informative article:
Nicole Laber, Founder, Fospice Mom, and Board Treasurer

What Is Cushing’s Disease?

Cushing’s Disease
What is Cushing’s Disease?

Cushing’s disease, while rare in people, is very common in dogs. Overall, it’s usually around 600,000 cases a year, and with a disease that can be hard to diagnose, the numbers could be even higher. Despite your species, however, Cushing’s disease is an overproduction of cortisol by the adrenal glands (above the kidneys). Cortisol, or the stress hormone, plays a vital role in regulating immune systems, energy, liver function, and multiple other organ functions. However, when the body produces cortisol in excessive amounts for a long period, it can damage the body drastically.

Most of the time, the disease is a result of tumors on glands that either end up releasing too much cortisol, or overproducing ACTH that then tells the adrenal glands to over-make more cortisol. Another possible reason could be from steroid medication.

Generally, once diagnosed, Cushing’s disease does not get treatment. Cushing’s is likely fatal, but surgery to remove the tumor or radiation therapy has seen significant success.

To help catch signs early, make sure you pay close attention to your pet’s behavior. Generally, most owners can tell when their pet is acting different, or has a different physical appearance, but hone in on these things:

  • Increase in thirst and appetite

  • Increase in urination

  • Increase in panting

  • Reduced physical activity like playing, running, etc.

  • A potbelly, and different skin issues

These issues are not all necessary for a diagnosis, they’re just the general reports of pets who have Cushing’s disease. If your dog or cat starts to have symptoms similar to these, make sure to monitor their behavior to see if they may have more than one, and bring them to a vet for an evaluation.

https://sashvets.com/diseases/canine-cushings-disease/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19153526/#:~:text=This%20is%20in%20contrast%20to,muscle%20atrophy%20and%20skin%20changes.

https://vcahospitals.com/know-your-pet/cushings-disease-in-dogs

Clara Brown, Junior Board Member

Bonded Pairs (Losing One)

Heaven and Nevaeh presented me with several new experiences as a pet Mom, including having a bonded pair. That’s not something I had any prior experience with, and these girls were definitely bonded. They loved each other very much, and when they came to us, that was all they had – each other. They huddled together to sleep and never let each other out of sight. They went outside together, to the Vet together, and to the groomer together. We tried to make sure they were never separated while they became comfortable with us. Thankfully, they quickly came to understand that our home brought them much more than just each other to count on. They now had a new Mom and Dad, as well as other furry siblings who were there for them. The girls blossomed in our home, and I am forever grateful that they were able to join us. They taught me so much, and I will treasure those lessons and memories forever.
As time went on, I saw that the girls relied less on each other. But there were times when they did still need to know the other was there – like trips to the Vet or groomer, or other stressful situations. They still slept together at night, and we often found them sleeping together during the day. It was the sweetest relationship but wasn’t without arguments. They had their little fights – usually over food when Heaven would get possessive. They always became friends again very quickly though and would be the first to defend each other.
When the time came to say goodbye to Nevaeh, one last decision needed to be made – should Heaven be present for the euthanasia? Never having a bonded pair before meant that this was never something I had to think about. I researched for hours to find something to give me an answer, but nothing fit our situation. What I ended up doing was taking parts from different sources and coming up with my own process to make a decision. I wanted to share this with you in case anyone else is struggling with this same situation.
Whether you decide to have your other dog(s) present is a decision only you can make, and each situation may be very different. This is just the process I used.
Deciding whether to have Heaven present during Nevaeh’s euthanasia was a personal choice that depended on various factors. Here are some considerations that helped me make the decision:
Assess Heaven’s temperament: Consider Heaven’s personality and how she typically reacts to stressful or emotional situations. Some dogs may become distressed or anxious when witnessing the euthanasia process, while others may find comfort in being present with their companion. If Heaven is generally sensitive or easily stressed, it may be better to have her in a separate location during the procedure.
Consult with your Veterinarian: Discuss your concerns and options with your Veterinarian. They can provide guidance based on their experience and knowledge of Heaven’s behavior. They may be able to offer insights into how Heaven might react and whether it would be beneficial for her to be present.
Consider the impact on Heaven’s grieving process: Dogs can experience grief and loss when a companion passes away. Some experts believe that allowing surviving pets to witness the euthanasia process can help them understand and process the loss. However, it’s important to consider Heaven’s emotional well-being and whether being present during the euthanasia may cause more distress or confusion.
Create a peaceful environment for Heaven: If you decide to have Heaven present, ensure that the environment is calm and supportive. Consider having a familiar blanket or toy nearby to provide comfort. You may also want to have a trusted person present to provide support and reassurance to both Heaven and yourself.
Trust your intuition: Ultimately, trust your instincts and what feels right for both Nevaeh and Heaven. You know your pets best and can make the decision that you believe will be most beneficial for their well-being.
Remember, there is no right or wrong answer in this situation. It’s a deeply personal decision, and whatever choice you make, it should be based on what you believe is best for both you and your pets.
Ultimately, we decided not to have Heaven present. We felt that her protectiveness of Nevaeh would make the procedure very stressful for Heaven. I am glad that was the decision I made. Heaven had spent a great deal of time with Neveah in the days leading up to her final appointment and I believe had already said goodbye. Dogs know things long before we do, sometimes. Thankfully, Heaven seemed to take the transition of being without Nevaeh pretty well. I really think that she did most of her grieving before Nevaeh passed; she knew long before we did that it was Nevaeh’s time. Dogs are much more attuned to the health of their housemates than I ever imagined. Now Heaven has us and the other pups in the house to fill that void, and she is doing very well. Her personality is blossoming even more, and we love her so much!
Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom, and Board Treasurer

Helping Our Pets Through The Holidays

Heading into the holiday season, our thoughts are pulled into many directions. From our holiday menu to the guest list or even where to be and when. And just think, we know it’s the holidays and that our schedules are going to be different and quite possibly chaotic.
Now think about our pets. They are going to have no idea what is going on until it happens. I mean, you can try to explain it to them, but I have a feeling that conversation will go nowhere.
So how do we make the holiday season as normal and the least stressful as possible for our furry family members? There are several ways to help comfort our pets in order to reassure them that their world is not falling apart and, in all reality, might help us feel less stressed.
Keep the routine as normal as possible
Feeding times, walks, naps, and bedtime should all stay on the same schedule as much as possible. If this means you have to leave early or show up a little late, what better excuse than my dog needed me. Don’t forget when they start talking politics that the dog needs a walk.
Create a safe, relaxing space
When guests come over to our home, we need to remember it is our pet’s home, too, and that they might feel invaded or super excited to share their home with others. Be ready with a plan. Both these issues are over stimulating and should be addressed in order for your animal to be able to enjoy company as much as possible. Don’t hesitate to give your pet a break in a room of their own that is comfortable. Have a special treat or favorite toy waiting for them so that everyone can relax, knowing that there are going to be no bad choices made. Keeping the dog on a leash until they are comfortable is even an option.
Be aware of decoration overload
Our pets can stress about your holiday decorations. We move furniture and add smells from wherever the decorations come from. This can be a very big concern for some pets. Although they are beautiful and calming for us, the decorations might be a threat to our pets. Just new stull that our pets need to leave alone. A pet might need time to get used to the decor change of their domain, Take it slow, decorate in sections, or maybe spread out the amount of time you bring everything out, allowing them time to get used to everything bit by bit.
Table scraps are not necessary
Be educated on what table scraps are okay for our pets to have. Don’t hesitate to tell Uncle Bob that your animals are not allowed to have turkey skin or bones. Have a container of appropriate treats for guests to feel free to give the animals.
As a trainer, my first question for clients when they tell me their dog is acting differently is, “What has changed?”. The holiday season is a rollercoaster of change from smells, routines, and activities. None of us are perfect, so when your pet starts to act up just realize, they have no idea Santa is coming to town and just want their life back to normal. Give them grace and as much normalcy as possible.
These are just a few tips to get started thinking about how the holidays can affect our furry friends. I know the holidays can be busy and overwhelming but remember that your pet doesn’t understand and is waiting for you during this time of year just like the other 10 months out of the year, and we owe it to our best friends to make it the best holiday season for them also.
Happy Holidays! Stay safe, and as always, thank you all for your love and support,
Chastity Crowder, Fospice Mom, and Board President

Mammary Cancer

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month for us humans, a very important reminder for us. However, it can also be an important reminder for our pups as well; they can get mammary cancer too. We have dealt with this many times here at Laber of Love. Our first case was with Jedi, who came to us with mammary tumors that needed to be removed right away because they were partially ruptured. Unfortunately, her cancer spread to her lungs.
Right now, we have 4 pets that came to us or developed mammary tumors while in our care – Ginger, Ruby, Rose, and Nevaeh. While we are hopeful that we have been able to catch these masses early on for this group of dogs, there is no guarantee that the Vet will be able to remove all of the cancerous cells; cancer could very easily spread to other parts of their bodies as it did with Jedi. With Nevaeh, we aren’t able to remove her masses at all because she would more than likely not even make it through the surgery. This is what we face when we get these dogs at the end of their lives. Not only do we hold them and care for them through any surgery they face along with the effects of cancer ravaging their bodies, but we also bear the burden of the cost as well.
But what if this didn’t have to happen? What if I told you that simply spaying your female dog when it is young can lessen the risk of your dog having this form of cancer? In fact, if you spay your female before its first heat cycle, you can reduce the chances of her developing mammary cancer to less than 1%. If spayed after the first heat cycle, the risk is still small – 7%
Who wouldn’t take those odds?
Mammary masses aren’t the only danger though. Pyometra is a dangerous infection of the uterus that can be life threatening if left untreated. This is another complication that can be avoided altogether if your dog has been spayed appropriately.
Finally, dogs can develop tumors in their uteruses. Although 85-90% of these tumors are non-cancerous, they generally develop during middle age to older dogs and are still dangerous. Another complication that would be completely avoided if the dog had been spayed at a young age.
Not only does spaying your female dog at a young age reduce the risk of mammary and uterine cancer or a pyometra, but the surgery is so much less invasive, and the recovery is easier for your pup as well. As an added bonus, you will be helping to control the pet population which is currently out of control. There are simply not enough loving homes for the dogs being bred right now. This is the easiest way that everyone can help the situation.
So help your dog live a much more fulfilling and happy life – spay her early in her life! This will save heartache, time, and money down the road for you too.
Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom, and Board Treasurer

Feline Leukemia

We usually talk all things dog, but today I wanted to discuss cats because cats are important too and we love them too here at Laber of Love Pet Rescue. Today’s topic is feline leukemia. Feline Leukemia (FeLV) is a fatal disease found only in cats; it cannot be passed to people or to dogs. It is passed from cat to cat through fluids, usually saliva. It can also be passed from a mother to her kittens at birth. This disease virtually wipes out a cat’s immune system leaving them open to many other infections/diseases. It’s not the leukemia that ends up killing the cat, it is some other secondary infection or disease. If caught early, the cat is properly cared for, it is kept inside and taken to the Vet regularly, and the cat can live a relatively long and normal life.
We had the privilege to be the final home for a FeLV positive kitten, Tilly, recently. She was a tiny little thing who came to us with a poor prognosis. She was already sick and had an ulcer under her tongue. Our best guess is that she is one of the unlucky ones that was passed this disease from her mom during birth. She was found as an only kitten by a good Samaritan and taken to the Shelby County Animal Shelter. Thankfully that was the case so that she could find comfort and peace in her last weeks. Too many stray cats and kittens don’t have this good fortune; they die alone.
We had the privilege to be the final home for a FeLV-positive kitten, Tilly, recently. She was a tiny little thing who came to us with a poor prognosis. She was already sick and had an ulcer under her tongue. Our best guess is that she is one of the unlucky ones that was passed this disease from her mom during birth. She was found as an only kitten by a good Samaritan and taken to the Shelby County Animal Shelter. Thankfully that was the case so that she could find comfort and peace in her last weeks. Too many stray cats and kittens don’t have this good fortune; they die alone. are available, is it something you can do on your own? There are plenty of resources online that will walk you through how to get started.
Please see the attached article for more info: 
Let’s all be part of the solution; we can do it together.
Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Kids And Pet Responsibility

When having pets with a family, it’s important to teach your children responsibility and how to respect animals. As someone who grew up, and is still growing up with animals, I learned quickly that not all animals will put up with being treated roughly. Both dogs and cats alike will let you know if something is bugging them by leaving, running away and hiding, or nipping and scratching. Although this will eventually teach your child how to be respectful of your animal’s space, it’s still a good idea to teach your child how to be mindful of your pet.

Whenever you get a pet, it’s a good idea to teach your child that pets are not toys. Like people, they eat, sleep, and need exercise. The best way to teach a child this is by involving them in feeding, walking, and training of your pet. Involving kids in the process of caretaking helps casually teach them the basics of walking and feeding your pet. It is not a good idea to get a pet for your child and leave them to take care of a pet unsupervised. As your kid gets older, you can start to

give them jobs related to the pet, like walking your dog, or changing your cat’s litter, or feeding your animals.

When it comes to respecting an animal, most pets will let you know when they’ve had enough, but you still want to monitor your kids with pets. You don’t want your child to tug on your pet too hard and risk your kid getting nipped or scratched, or hurting your pet. You most likely wouldn’t let your child pull and tug on another kid’s arms or hair, so don’t let them do that to your animal, either. It’s okay to pet and play, and as you continue taking care of your pet, you’ll begin to bond with them and get an understanding of their boundaries and what they like and dislike, but you still need to be aware of general respectfulness of your animal and their space. Hitting, constant tricking, or neglecting your animal is bad pet ownership.

If your child is old enough, it’s a good idea to teach them a general understanding of space and what their responsibilities should be with your pet. Knowing how to take care of a living animal is a great skill for your child to have. Owning a pet is a great way to teach kids empathy and appreciation for life in general. (But this is not just a learning experience for your child, it is also the life of an animal so you MUST keep that in mind when taking on a pet.)

Overall, growing up with a pet is an invaluable experience for your entire family if done responsibly. Remember to be mindful of the commitment of getting a pet for your entire family during the adoption process. Again: this is a living thing, treat them like one.

For more information on the relationships between children and pets you can visit these websites:

https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/FFF-Guide/Pets-And-Children-075.aspx#:~:text=Children%20should%20be%20reminded%20in,by%20observing%20their%20parents’%20behavior.

https://www.aprilaire.com/blog/responsible-pet-ownership-teaching-kids-dos-donts/

https://texashumanenetwork.org/teaching-kids-to-be-nice-to-animals/

Clara Brown, Junior Board Member

How To Care For A Blind Dog

As a fospice mom currently fostering a blind, elderly Yorkie, I thought I’d share my experience as well as some advice on how to care for a dog who is visually impaired. I currently have Muffin in my care with Laber of Love, and over the last 17 months with her, I’ve found it amazing how she adapted to my home after just a few short days. She knows exactly which end I sit on the couch, the side of the bed I usually lay on, right where her bed is, her food bowl, the ottoman, the step down on the patio, the outdoor furniture, etc. Muffin is my second blind dog with Laber of Love, and my experience has been the same with both…absolutely wonderful!
Just like humans, dogs can be affected by blindness as well as other conditions like glaucoma, infections, and cataracts. Although a dog’s eyesight can deteriorate in senior dogs, it’s not safe to assume that their deterioration is just due to old age. There may be underlying issues, so please speak with your vet if there are concerns.
Visually impaired animals depend on consistency in their environment without big changes. Once in their environment, they create a scent map and a mind map of where things are, such as the furniture. Moving furniture can be distressing as they are dependent on one less sense, although their remaining senses are heightened.
Talking to your blind dog and using your voice all the time is also important. Consistent communication allows them to be independent while also caring for and reassuring them that they can do the things of a sighted animal with just a little more caution. Using commands like “step up,” or “step down,” or “stop” will alert them to a situation that is different than their normal routine or path.
Sometimes getting down on their level and doing a crawl around your home will give you a sense of what they experience on a daily basis. Are there obstacles that can be moved to make their path easier and/or safer? Are there sharp objects or table corners that you should be aware of?
Try to keep their routine and schedule the same. Knowing their feeding times, walks, etc., will help your pet feel comfortable and know what to expect each day.
Please remember that blindness doesn’t always mean your dog won’t want to play or interact! Toys that make noises or provide a scent will allow your dog to be involved and play as he/she used to!
With a little extra care and caution, don’t forget to treat your dog just like you would any other pet because that’s exactly what he/she is!
Nicole Patrizio, Fospice Mom and Board Member

Building A Happy Pack From The Start

Initially, this blog was meant to be about how to introduce a new dog into your home with your already existing dog(s). But I would like to shape this objective a bit differently. Let’s begin by Building a Happy Pack from the Start. Think of it as the blueprint to your future’s steady pack.
This leads to the question, are we ready to add a fur-ever family member? Do you have a plan in place to set yourself up for success?
Good questions to discuss and answer are:
Do we foresee any significant changes concerning time or lifestyle in the future? This isn’t even about the near future this involves a decision that will affect many years down the road. I know we’re not fortune tellers and life happens but if you are uncertain about what the future holds for any reason give yourself some time before making this decision.
Are you aware of the services that will be needed with the addition of the new fur-ever friend? Do you know which border, groomer, trainer, dog walker, or daycare you will be using if needed? Are you prepared for the cost of veterinary bills?
Do you have a current pet? Is it ready for a new friend? Is it up to date on vet care? Are there any behaviors that might need to be addressed before adding that new fur-ever friend to your family? Most people do not consider the fact that an unaltered animal can be more difficult to adjust to another animal, altered or not. This is a genuine issue when it comes to behaviors regarding animals getting along for a novice dog owner.
These questions are valid and only fair to ask yourself when you’re planning on changing not only your life but the life of your furry companions. And the first step to a solid foundation when building a happy pack. Some of the most responsible pet owners are the ones that know to wait.
So, let’s say you feel confident that now is the right time to add a fur-ever friend to your family, now on to the next level of planning.
Be ready with a routine. Have a training method ready to incorporate into the routine that will create consistency for everyone involved. This creates security for the current dog and the new dog. I personally prefer crate training because that is what works best for my home. Setting up a solid routine will give you something to fall back on if everything seems to be falling apart. There will be times when going back to this routine will remind the dog(s) that you know what you are doing and are in charge without having to question yourself. It is a positive but effective way to set boundaries without having to get frustrated. This will save your sanity.
There are many How To videos and articles involving how to introduce a new fur-ever friend into your life. They all have most of the same advice so follow that and confirm what works best for your lifestyle. Remember it doesn’t have to be hard. Take it slow to build your confidence in order to become the leader your pack needs. These choices are molding the future of your pack and you will reap the benefits for years to come.
I believe that if people would ask questions first before adding that new fur-ever friend then maybe, just maybe we would have a few more responsible pet owners in society. This would allow our shelters and rescues the ability to help those people and pets that are really in need and not just those who see pets as less than a lifelong commitment.
Laber of Love Pet Rescue is dedicated to loving our pets until the very end with respect, compassion, and dignity. Thank you all for your continued support and love.
Chastity Crowder , Fospice Mom and Board President

Potty Training A Senior Dog

 

 

Bringing home any new dog can come with challenges, senior dogs are no exception. However, one benefit of senior dogs is many of them are already housetrained (to me that is a huge benefit!) That is not always the case, though. And even if it is, the dog may need a refresher when entering a new home. So how do you potty train a senior dog? It is much the same as any other dog, but there can be some subtle differences. One is how stubborn the dog is or how willing to learn. I’ll be the first to admit some seniors are really stubborn, like our little sassy girls Heaven and Nevaeh. However, some are so eager to please that potty training is a breeze! The other consideration with senior dogs is health issues. If potty training doesn’t go as planned, it is always a good idea to visit your vet to make sure there aren’t any underlying health issues. Urinary issues become more prevalent as our pets get older and affect their frequency of urination and the urgency with which they need to go. Kidney issues can also have an effect. There are other health issues that cause “leakage” and hinder the pet’s ability to even know when they are urinating. It’s very important to be aware and talk to your vet if you are seeing any of these issues. Personally, I use a combination of a crate/playpen and keeping the dog tethered to me when I first bring a new one home to potty train. This gives me more control over where the dog goes and what the dog does. I can also keep a close eye on them and start to recognize their “cues” shown when they need to go potty. Some dogs prance around, some start sniffing more, some turn circles and some start staring at me more. Seems every dog has a different “cue”, and it’s important to recognize your dog’s. Keeping the dog tethered to you also helps form a bond with the dog. I treasure the bond that I make with each and every one! This combined with frequent trips outside and establishing a schedule are the keys to my household. Unfortunately, potty training isn’t always a possibility for senior dogs though. This may be because of past experiences that we know nothing about or because of health issues. If that is the case for you and your dog, there are tools that can help! Diapers, belly bands, and puppy pads have been life savers (and flooring savers) for Laber of Love fospice parents! Hopefully, the attached article can help you if you choose to bring home a senior pet. Be patient, don’t give up. The love of a senior dog is well worth a little time, angst, paper towels, and floor cleaners! https://www.petmd.com/dog/training/ins-and-outs-potty-training-older-dogs-0?

Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Lyme Disease Prevention

Flea and Tick protection isn’t just about keeping your pet free of those nasty fleas. It’s also about protecting against ticks, too. Yes, fleas are annoying and can cause health issues, but so can ticks. Those little bugs can cause several infections, but the most serious and potentially deadly is Lyme Disease. I am currently learning quite a bit about Lyme Disease since our newest foster Maggie has presented Lyme positive. This disease can present with many symptoms including limping and swollen joints, generalized pain, sensitivity to petting, appetite loss, decreased energy, mental decline, and weight loss. In the long term, Lyme Disease can cause damage to the heart, kidneys, and liver. Many of these symptoms are what our sweet Maggie is dealing with now, but we are hoping that the long term issues have been avoided for now at least. Unfortunately, we can treat her symptoms and put this disease in remission. It can and will flare up again and again though. And all of this was entirely preventable as quite a few of the issues that we deal with in our hospice dogs. A monthly preventative will help reduce fleas and ticks for our beloved pets. And this will cost considerably less than having to deal with the treatment and long term effects. Please take care of your pets; heartworm and flea/tick preventatives are not an option.
For more information on Lyme Disease, how it’s treated, and how to prevent it please take a look at the attached article.
Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Picky Pets/Medication

Dogs will eat almost anything it seems, right? Your sock, your homework, or a stray kitchen floor scrap, but when it comes time to take their medicine for whatever ails them, many of us dog parents find ourselves frustrated when trying to get our pets to take it without a fuss. We’ve all experienced seeing the medication left sitting there looking right back at us!
Before we talk about the many options that may be helpful, always check with your pet’s veterinarian in regard to the details about the medications. Some medications may have a coating on them in which case they shouldn’t be cut or crushed. This coating is necessary for timed release of the medication and breaking or crushing it will destroy it. And always follow the medication directions for timing, dosage, etc. It is also imperative before trying any of the methods below to know your pet’s allergies to ingredients and to check labels thoroughly and consult your veterinarian if you’re unsure.
For most pets, the obvious way of ‘hiding’ a medication is through food. If your pet is food-driven it seems easy enough to hide the pill in a small bit of peanut butter, canned cheese, a marshmallow, a small piece of deli meat, cream cheese, or maybe wet dog food if they are used to dry food. If your dog is especially keen on eating the food and pushing the pill to the side, you could try crushing or grinding the pill. For a medication in capsule form, try opening the capsule and mixing the powdered medicine with a wet food such as gravy, cream cheese, peanut butter, etc.
Another idea is to use your dog’s paw. Whether it’s a crushed pill, a liquid, or powdered medication from a capsule, mixing it a small amount of peanut butter, cream cheese and smearing it on your dog’s paws might also work. They will lick it off and ingest the medication in the process.
If your dog is not taking the medication through food, another option that is especially handy and readily available are pill pockets. These work well if your dog is a fast eater or one who wolfs down their food or treats. They come in a variety of flavors and most dogs seem to like them and they’re easy enough to hide the pill in its whole form.
Perhaps your dog’s medication is a liquid. In this case, mixing the liquid medication with a pate or a gravy from wet food often works well. You can also give liquid meds via an oral “syringe.” This is often successfully done by giving it on the side of the mouth against the cheek. This may be something you can do alone but if not, asking a family member to help is a good idea. Not all dogs are overly cooperative. Giving your pet medicine is not only stressful for them, but it can also be stressful for you, too. Having someone hold your dog while you administer the medication will not only be helpful for you but also less stressful for you and your dog.
As always, asking your vet to demonstrate how to get your dog to take medication with less of a fight is always a good idea. He/she can help show you proper techniques and offer expert ideas into helping make this process less stressful.
In my personal experience, every dog is different like we are as people. You may need to try several different ways until you find one that is successful for you and your dog. Be patient and gentle and ask for help if necessary. In the end, we want what’s the very best for our pets and are willing to try to find whatever works to keep them healthy and happy!
Nicole Patrizio, Board Member and Fospice Mom

Tooth Or Consequences

A topic that I have written about before, and will again, is pet dental health. Why is this so important? Because the dental health of your pet can affect so many aspects of their lives, and not only health related.
 
 
· Did you know that by age 3, 70% of cats and 80% of dogs are experiencing some form of dental disease? This is not just an “old pet” problem! Bad breath is not normal for pets; it is either a sign of a health issue or a dental disease. Let’s put that myth to bed right now.
 
· Pets are good at hiding their pain, and if we wait until they tell us there is something wrong by not eating or rubbing at their mouth, the damage will be extensive.
 
· Pain can lead to behavioral changes in pets. They can become aggressive in general or just when someone is trying to touch the affected part of their body.
 
· The bacteria that forms in a pet’s mouth and causes dental disease causes plaque and tartar. It also affects their gums.
 
· Dental disease can lead to many other health issues including (not limited to this list):
 
o Heart issues
 
o Liver issues
 
o Kidney issues
 
o Complications for dogs with diabetes
 
· If not treated dental disease can lead to other complications with your pet’s oral health including:
 
o Abscessed or infected teeth
 
o Infections that lead to swelling in the face
 
o Broken teeth
 
o Rotting, weakening, and wearing away of the jaw bone leading to a broken jaw
 
As a pet owner myself, I have learned the hard way to take care of my pet’s teeth. And not just my dogs, but cats too. Early detection is key to avoiding all of the consequences noted above. Annual checkups with your vet and listening to their advice on when to get your pet’s teeth cleaned are key. Please take care of your pet so that they don’t become a statistic or have the issues our sweet Nevaeh has. We don’t ever want to see another dog end up where she is (but rest assured she is now being spoiled and taken care of!).

Why Shelter Seniors?

“ADOPT DON’T SHOP” this is a catchphrase that has helped shape the animal community as we know it. The “Adopt Don’t Shop” Campaign has been around for years, promoting the adoption of rescue pets from animal shelters. The campaign was started by an organization based in Los Angeles called “Last Chance For Animals” founded by Chris DeRose in 1984. There had come a time that drawing attention to the wonderful adoptable pets that have found themselves in a shelter was much needed in order to make a change. Since then, in a bill sponsored by State Senator Bob Hackett, the Shelter Dog was named the official state dog of Ohio! The bill was backed by nearly 100 co-sponsors and went into effect in March 2019. All this information is encouraging for animal lovers and those that believe that the animals that end up in shelters deserve a second chance. But then you have the fact of the adoption rate of senior pets. The sad reality is that senior dogs are one of the most at risk groups in shelters as they are usually the last to be adopted, spending up to 4 times longer than a younger dog. With a 25% adoption rate, compared to the 60% adoption rate of younger dogs and puppies.
The founder of Laber of Love Pet Rescue (Nicole Laber) recognized the need for senior dogs and cats while volunteering at her local shelter. It was then she had the opportunity to assist in fostering the less adoptable senior pets in order to get them out of the shelter for the remainder of their lives. After time and finding several like-minded, passionate people Laber of Love Pet Rescue was established in August of 2019. Laber of Love Pet Rescue is a Fospice Rescue that pulls terminally ill or senior pets from shelters and places them in a home for the remainder of their lives. The board and all those involved with Laber of Love Pet Rescue find themselves very fortunate to have the opportunity to help these senior or terminally ill pets find their way out of the shelter and into their forever loving home.
Chastity Crowder, Fospice Mom and Board President

Keeping Our Pets At A Healthy Weight

Walter joined Laber of Love weighing in at 26 pounds, extremely overweight. We were fortunate that given his age and weight that his blood work didn’t show any issues. However, we were not comfortable putting him under anesthesia at that weight for his dental so the procedure had to be postponed for a few months. We are very thankful that his amazing fospice parents were able to put him on a diet and get some weight off and he was able to have the dental done a couple of weeks ago.
We all want to spoil our pets and give them all the food and treats they want. We just want them to be happy, right? But, like Walter, this leaves our pets open to being extremely overweight and at higher risk of many health issues. Heart related problems, arthritis, diabetes – there are so many health related problems whose risks are raised for obese pets. Diet and exercise are extremely important in mitigating those risks. The attached article gives some great information on the risks of an overweight pet, how to maintain a healthy weight, and how to know what a healthy weight is for your pet. Please take a moment to read so we can all keep our pets happy, and healthy, and allow them to live long lives as our best friends!
Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Should Pets Be Gifts?

If you are reading this blog there is a good chance that you think pets are an important part of life. And who doesn’t want to share that joy with someone else? We surround ourselves with our loving pets, they make our days happier and ease the stress of the not-so-good days. We reap the benefits of being an animal parent and couldn’t imagine life without our beloved pets by our side. Now someone you love is wanting a pet and thinks they are ready. They have asked you to keep an eye out for just the right pet and then you find the perfect fit for your loved one. Why not surprise them and give them the pet of their dreams as a gift?!
And STOP!
You love pets. And you love the person looking for a new family member. How could this go wrong?
There are several things to consider when wanting to gift a pet. Below is a link to an article that lays out some of the key points to consider when wanting to give someone a pet. Please take time to read or even share the article with someone that is considering giving a pet as a gift.
With the holidays around the corner, we want to make our family and friends feel loved by giving them the gifts that they ask for and to make the holidays that more special. But a pet is so much more than an item that you think you might want. An animal, not the sweater that goes out of style next year and becomes the new ugly Christmas sweater next year. They are not the newest gadget that will make your life easier in 4 easy steps. Or the answer to why getting healthy this year is going to work.
Pets are a lifetime commitment. The average lifespan of a dog is 10 to 13 years. Cats can live up to 16 years old or even longer. Even goldfish have a life span of 10-15 years if housed correctly! So, getting caught up in holiday giving can affect the receiver for many years to come. Even worse, could result in having to rehome the animal or surrender to it a shelter.
Giving the pet vet care in order for it to live a long healthy life can be more than most new pet owner bargain or budget for. The average cost of owning a dog is $480 on the low end to the possibility of $3,470 per year on the high end. According to the ASPCA you can plan on spending around $634 annually on your cat. Of course, the goldfish is a bit more cost-effective than expecting someone else to maintain the health of their pet. For goldfish, you are looking at around $70 to set up and maintain a goldfish’s home.
If you are considering giving a pet as a gift, please make sure the recipient has a plan in place to receive such a valuable gift. Also plan on being a part of the plan because you have done the research and taken everything into consideration before making this big decision.
With the holidays around the corner, we want to make our family and friends feel loved by giving them the gifts they ask for and making the holidays more special. But a pet is so much more than an item that you think you might want. An animal, not the sweater that goes out of style next year and becomes the new ugly Christmas sweater next year. They are not the newest gadget that will make your life easier in 4 easy steps. Or the answer to why getting healthy this year is going to work.
Happy Holidays and stay safe,
Chastity Crowder, Fospice Mom and Board President

Cancer In Dogs And Cats

Finding a lump or a bump on your pet can be scary.  I know it is for me.  As an owner of many older dogs, I’ve definitely seen my share of lumps and bumps!  Many of them turn out to be malignant and harmless, but some are not.  So how do you know the difference?  For me that is an easy answer – I ask the Vet!  I trust them to tell me what I need to worry about and what I don’t.  Sweet little Heaven has several lumps, but thankfully they are cysts that form in oil glands, sebaceous cysts, and are completely harmless.  On the other hand, Nevaeh has the beginning of a mass in her mammary chain.  This one is concerning because of the location.  It’s not necessarily cancer, but we will definitely be keeping an eye on it and so is the Vet.  We rely on them to tell us what to do for diagnosis and when the best time to do it.  That is the best advice I can give you if you feel anything talk to your Vet.

We have been through terminal cancer diagnoses, they can be devastating for us as the owner.  But knowing that the end is near can be a gift as well.  It gives us time to share special moments with our pets.  To give them some extra special spoiling and us some extra special memories to keep after they have left us.
We have also been through cancer diagnoses that are treatable; thankfully many are today.  The earlier these are found, the better the outcome for the pets.  The key is to make sure you know your pets and find new lumps and bumps early.  Seek treatment from a trusted Vet; follow their recommendations and get your pet the care he or she needs early.  It really can make all the difference!
For more information on cancer in pets, check out this article: https://www.ahofstatesville.com/services/dogs/dog-cancer
Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Senior Companionship 4 Seniors

Laber of Love Pet Rescue is a fospice care organization.  Our mission is to place experienced pets in loving homes for the remainder of their lives. We also realize that the companionship goes both ways offering unconditional love thus posing the question “Who rescued who?”. Attached is an article that refers to the benefits of senior adults and pet ownership.  As pet lovers, none of us can argue any of the points of the benefits of pet ownership, *Healthy behavior habits. *Improves activity. *A sense of purpose. *Increases interaction. *Relieves stress. *Companionship. The alternative to the above list is the considerations that a senior must face in order to continue to be a pet owner during this season of life. *Experienced pet owner. *Choosing the right pet. *Financial stability. In addition, the article adds that getting an older pet would be a good choice.  Laber of Love Pet Rescue could be a valuable asset when it comes to deciding whether or not a pet is an option during a senior’s years. Going back to the list of concerns it suggests that being an experienced pet owner is helpful.  While some experience is very useful,  Laber of Love has an amazing support system put in place to assist with the basic needs of a pet owner from having a trainer available to reach out to when a questionable behavior might arise. And finding the right pet is just as important to Laber of Love as it should be an honest concern for the new owner. Laber of Love volunteers will be looking for just the right fit in order to make a successful match. Finally, the financial burden that a senior might feel when wanting to take the best care of their new companion. This is where the Laber of Love family of supporters has stepped up in order for our mission to be complete. Laber of Love Pet Rescue is committed to providing the comfort care our fospice pets deserve for the remainder of their lives. We are even there if Vet visits are a problem to manage.  Laber of Love Pet Rescue is so grateful for all the love and support that is sent our way for fospice rescue! We want to continue to pay it forward by sharing the love in the best way possible, saving lives. If you are interested in knowing about ways to help or how our fospice program works check out the fospice section of our website @ https://www.laberoflovepetrescue.com/#fospice

Additional info can be found @ https://www.homeinstead.com/location/347/news-and-media/benefits-of-companion-animals-for-elderly/

Chastity Crowder, Fospice Mom and Board President

 

Research Before Getting A Dog

This may be a long post so please stay with me here.  I want to talk to you today about adding a new dog to your family.  When it’s time to add a new family member, and getting a dog is adding a new family member, you are committing to keeping that dog for its entire life.  Please, first think about that.   We’ll talk about breed and size in a minute, but age is a consideration too when getting a new dog.  If you are adopting a puppy, that could be 15-18 years depending on the breed.  Are you ready for that commitment?  If not, is an older dog right for you?   Puppies require quite a bit more time and training as they need their owner to teach them almost everything.  Older dogs generally still require some training and patience as they enter a new home, but it’s usually quite a bit less than a puppy.

Second, think about where and how you live.  The breed, size, and temperament of the dog you adopt should be compatible with your living situation and your personality.  Apartments are great for some dog breeds that don’t need a ton of exercise, but some dog breeds need a home with a large fenced-in yard to get in some playtime.  Do some research to find the right breed/mix for your situation.  There are lots of websites out there that can tell you all about the breeds and what each needs and the adoption counselors whom you are going to adopt your dog from are great resources to help as well.  Not only can they tell you about breeds, but they can tell you about each specific dog too.  Listen to them.

Third, don’t forget your family.  Make sure you pick a dog that is good for your family situation now and for the future.  Do you have kids now or plan to?  Do you have other dogs or cats or plan on adding more?  Do you have farm animals?  Do you want a dog that will travel with you?  Plan for now and for the next 10 years.

And finally, make sure you have a plan and finances for all the things that your new dog will need.  Some breeds are prone to health concerns that will require additional Vet care, but all dogs will need a minimum of annual check-ups and vaccines.  Food, supplements, toys, and training should not be forgotten either.  Grooming is also very important to consider.  Be sure to know what grooming needs your new dog will have.  Will you need to brush/bathe the dog at home frequently?  With the dog need to see a professional groomer regularly?

Please take some time to think about all of this before bringing a new dog into your family, and have a discussion about it with the entire family.  This is an important decision that should be given thought and consideration.  Too many homeless dogs are in Shelters because their families didn’t take the time and understand what they were bringing home.  Shelters and Rescues are overwhelmed.   Take time to be a part of the solution, not the problem.   Pick a dog that fits your home and lifestyle, not just because it is “cute” or you feel sorry for it.

For more information, please take a look at the following: https://www.happyhounduniversity.com/single-post/essential-factors-to-consider-when-adopting-a-dog

Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Why Canine Influenza Vaccine

As of recent more and more dog boarders are starting to request that dogs have their canine influenza vaccine, but exactly why? Well, canine influenza, or CI, is a highly contagious viral infection, which is mainly seen in dogs. CI is transmitted through droplets from coughing, barking, and sneezing. CI can also be spread indirectly through shared feeding or drinking bowls, collars, or leashes. Because of CI’s fast and invisible transmission between dogs, this infection is easily contracted and shared between pets, making the vaccine highly suggested by vets and other pet health professionals. But what does the Canine Influenza vaccine do? Similar to human vaccines, the CI vaccine is not going to stop your dog from ever contracting CI, but make the symptoms and severity of the illness less harmful and long-lasting. This allows you if in serious condition, to check in with a vet to ensure your pet’s health and that they aren’t in clinical condition. And this doesn’t just stop with dogs. CI can spread to cats too, causing respiratory complications, fever, and eating inconsistencies. Because of this, CI vaccines for both your canine and feline friends are often recommended or required for most boarding shelters. As always, be sure to check with your Vet for specific recommendations for your pets. For more information, visit the AVMA website: https://www.avma.org/resources-tools/animal-health-and-welfare/canine-influenza

Clara Brown, Junior Board Member

Why Foster/Fospice Care

June is National Foster a Pet Month and local shelters, and rescues are always looking for fosters. According to the ASPCA, “Approximately 6.3 million companion animals enter U.S. animal shelters nationwide every year.” Fostering a pet is not only providing a loving and caring home but can also save a pet’s life. “Data tells us that if we could encourage 2% more of the 85 million pet-owning households to foster just one pet a year, we can eliminate preventable euthanasia and save the lives of the 800,000 shelter animals at risk of euthanization.” Says Susanne Kogut, President of Petco Love.
One of the easiest ways to be part of Foster a Pet Month is by supporting your local animal shelter or rescue. Whether you choose to volunteer your time, donate financially, or foster a pet in your home you can make a difference! Traditional fostering is generally short-term while preparing the animal for its forever home. This provides the animal a peaceful place to live outside of many already overcrowded shelters. You may be the first to teach it basic manners, commands, and socialization. You may also be the first to provide that animal with unconditional love and care and doesn’t every pet deserve that?
In addition to traditional foster care, there are also rescues that focus their efforts on fospice care. Fospice care is end-of-life care for shelter pets in loving and caring foster homes. These pets are often senior in age and may also have medical issues. Fospice care is given to these pets for the remainder of their lives. It allows them to live in loving homes while being cared for physically and emotionally with the assurance they pass with dignity and comfort which they are so deserving of. Being a fospice mom myself, I was fortunate to care for and love a senior dog with kidney disease for 4 short months a year ago and it was an experience that has never left my heart. I felt humbled to be able to provide him with what he was in need of and to let go when it was time, knowing he had been cared for and loved. I currently have another senior dog in my home and it brings me joy to know she’s happy and loved (and spoiled!).
These are two very different types of fostering and while fospice care may not be for you, maybe traditional foster care is or vice versa. What we know for sure is there are thousands of pets in need of the love, care, and safety of a foster home and there are families out there looking to provide that.
If fostering a pet is something that calls to your heart please reach out to your local animal shelter or rescue.
Nicole Patrizio, Board Member and Fospice Mom

The Importance Of Microchips

This month’s blog is to inform you about the importance of microchips and how it would be useful for your senior dog to have one. I’m going to break this month’s blog information down into a couple of different points so stick with me because knowledge is power.
The Myth: OLD PETS WONDER OFF TO DIE
I believe this myth was started a long time ago for several different reasons: owners would like to believe the dog was doing them a favor and saving them the pain of saying goodbye. This releases the owner from having to find their missing dog that is probably off suffering somewhere. This was a way of thinking when responsible pet ownership was different and better options were not available so, let’s educate ourselves as responsible pet owners and DO BETTER!
If you read the article, I hope it is an Aha! moment and we can stop spreading this myth so that our older or sick dogs can say goodbye with the dignity and peace they deserve.
Busting the myth only brings us to the point of ok, so what can I do to help prevent my senior dog from becoming lost? If you are noticing a difference in your dog’s behavior, it is always a good idea to get a vet visit scheduled to determine if the behavior is coming from a health issue. Keep a closer eye on your dog. If the dog’s hearing or eyesight has become impaired, they may wander off unintentionally and become lost very quickly. If your pet isn’t already microchipped, consider the benefits of having your dog microchipped. It might seem pointless to consider microchipping a senior dog but it really is an inexpensive, reliable solution to help prevent losing your dog. What is a microchip and what is its purpose? A microchip is about the size of a large grain of rice and is injected under the dog’s loose skin between the shoulder blades. The microchip is a unique identifier that gives off a radio frequency once scanned. Once registered, the information on the microchip is the pet owner’s contact information. A microchip is not a GPS tracking device. As a foster mom of senior dogs, I have had several occasions when my senior dog has wandered off just following their nose but calling them back was not an option due to hearing loss. We would be walking together but when they would realize they had gone too far or lagging they were unable to see me because of their poor eyesight. I even had one lose her balance and roll down a hill and couldn’t get back up the hill to find us.
There are many reasons any dog ends up in an animal Shelter but when senior dogs are found as strays and brought in, when the owner comes and claims the dog they will commonly say, “I just thought they went off to die.”. And unfortunately, some never get claimed just for that same reason. Don’t let that be your beloved companion.
Chastity Crowder, Fospice Mom and Board President

My Dog Is Having A Seizure – What Do I Do?

Seeing your pet having a seizure is one of the scariest things that has happened to me as a pet owner.  I hope that by writing about my experience I can help someone else who may have this happen to them at some point in their pet ownership journey.  Twenty years ago, I had no idea what to do or what my dog having a seizure meant the first time it happened to one of our pets.  Poor little Sadie barked at me to wake me up in the middle of the night and was running around the house as I had never seen her do before.  Then she collapsed and just started shaking uncontrollably; she wouldn’t respond to anything I was saying to her.  The shaking lasted for about 2 minutes, but to me, it seemed like 20.  After the shaking stopped, she laid there for a while and slowly “woke up” and was just very tired the remainder of the night.  This was 20 years ago, our Vet didn’t have emergency hours; I didn’t know if there was a 24-hour emergency Vet anywhere like there is today.  I don’t think I slept at all the rest of the night.  Thankfully though when we did get to the Vet the next day, they didn’t find anything wrong with our girl and she lived another 12 years before having another seizure.

The next seizure was much more severe than the first.  It was at 1 o’clock in the morning.  But this time I knew what to do.  It wasn’t completely unexpected – we knew that Sadie had a nasal tumor and our time with her was growing short.  That didn’t make the seizure any less scary because it was much longer than the first – this one lasted well over five minutes.  And she did not recover from this one.  All I could do was lay beside her and talk softly to her to let her know she wasn’t alone.   Following this seizure, we took our girl to MedVet where we humanely euthanized her because we knew that was the right thing to do for her.  We loved our sweet Sadie for 14 years through her very last breath.

Please take a moment to read this article to learn more about the causes of seizures in pets, what the signs of a seizure are (because it’s not always the flailing, shaking like what we experienced with Sadie) what to do for your pet when one happens, and how to talk to your Vet.  This may one day help when you least expect it.  The more we know, the better pet owners we can be.

https://www.akc.org/expert-advice/health/dog-seizures-what-to-do/

Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Female Dogs Don’t Get Menopause!

This blog post is dedicated to our sweet princess Jedi:
As most of you know Jedi was with Laber of Love for 1 year. At 14 she came into the rescue with several mammary tumors, one in particular where surgery was inevitable due to size. Once she was settled into her new forever home LOL was able to get her vetted and have the tumor removed. This procedure can be quite risky and invasive for a 14-year-old dog but Jedi was true to her name and bounced back with vigor. It was encouraging to see a senior dog recover so well and we were excited to allow her to finish her life out strong. 
For the next 8 months, Jedi was able to live a healthy life with minimal to no health issues. Then she went into heat. After having her for 9 months she had her first menstrual cycle. Soon after, she acquired a UTI (urinary tract infection) a common side effect for females that have not been spayed. The UTI was treated but unfortunately, Jedi did not seem to be able to recover from this issue as well. She continued to have urinary issues until the end of her life which made her last few weeks even more uncomfortable while trying to love her with the dignity and care she deserved. We were in constant fear of pyometra which is a deadly infection in the uterus that goes into the bloodstream very quickly. In the end, we believe it was cancer that Jedi’s body was attacked by. The article attached states that the 2 common, deadly risks to having a female not spayed are mammary tumors and pyometra. There are several opinions as to when is the right time to have your dog spayed but please realize that having your dog spayed is necessary. 
This was written through tears and love by:
Chastity Crowder, Fospice Mom and Board President

Caring For Your Pet’s Teeth Is Important

More and more pet owners are understanding the need to care for their pets’ teeth. But not enough. Over the last few years, almost every dog that has entered our home through Laber of Love has had dental problems. Rotten teeth, nasal fistulas, broken canines, no teeth at all. These poor babies are in pain and they have health problems caused by horrible dental issues. Heaven has scar tissue growing in and around her mouth due to the fact that her teeth were removed at a young age (she is only 9), and the vet who removed them left the canines broken off in her gums. Nevaeh has no teeth left at the age of 10, her heart damage is probably due to bacteria from her teeth that entered her bloodstream. She also has nasal fistulas which are holes from her mouth up into her nasal cavity – the vet that removed her canines either didn’t properly close the incisions or there wasn’t follow-up care. Unfortunately, we can’t fix that issue due to her other medical conditions. Poor Forrest’s mouth was such a rotten mess that his dental cleaning cost $800, and he was in so much pain afterward due to the Vet having to pull so many teeth. Ray’s dental disease was a factor in his kidney disease. Can you imagine how painful that must be for all of them and for us to watch? Virtually all of this could have been avoided by regular dental cleaning at the Vet and a few simples things that pet owners can do at home. Please take the time to take care of your pets’ dental health. It’s not a minor part of their overall wellness – it is a major factor that can help or hurt their overall health from how well they eat to their heart, kidneys, and liver functions. It also keeps them happy. Imagine how you feel when you have a toothache, and multiply that times 42 because that is how many teeth a dog has. If interested in helping your pet’s dental health, take a look at this article for more information: https://www.stfrancisvh.com/blog/7-reasons-why-dental-care-for-dogs-is-important/

Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer

Introducing A New Pet

Introducing a new pet to your already established pack can sometimes feel stressful and overwhelming. Whether it be a pet that you’re keeping long-term or just interacting with another pet while you’re out and about, the key is to remain calm and be observant of the situation.

If you and your dog are out on a walk or in a store and encounter another dog, always make sure the encounter between your pets is mutually acceptable. Some dogs may be working, timid, or not great with close, social interactions. Once the interaction has been agreed upon with the other owner, watch for initial behaviors to gauge the pets’ willingness to interact cordially. If they seem to be tense, are turning their tails down, growling, yawning, and/or their hackles are raised, this is a sign that they are not comfortable with the interaction and should be separated before the situation escalates. Again, it is always important to know your dog’s behavior and watch for signs that do not seem friendly toward the other party.

Another way you may encounter this type of situation is if you are introducing a new pet to your home. While it can be a big task to take on, always remember to first do your research, remain calm, and know when to call in the experts if needed.

Every instance of introducing a new dog to your home can be different. Pets have different personalities just like humans. For example, puppies are developing skills and learning boundaries that adult dogs already have. If you are introducing a puppy to an established pack, keep this in mind and watch for those uncomfortable, tense behaviors. Don’t scold your adult dog for these behaviors. Instead, take a step back and give the adult dog a break or breaks as needed. If you’re introducing an adult dog to your home remember that each dog has had different experiences in life and may not approach an interaction the same way. Take the interaction slowly and if need be, change your approach. Your established dog may feel more comfortable at first with the new addition on a leash outside versus both being loose inside. Pay attention to your intuition and seek experienced help if needed.

Don’t give up on your furry friends if introducing them is not going well and don’t let a bad first impression sway you to make a rash decision. I’ve been there and experienced vastly different meetings within my own pack. You will never regret the time and patience that you give to bringing in a new pet to your home.

If you need help, reach out to your local training community for tips and/or training. I also found some helpful tips in this article from OSU: https://indoorpet.osu.edu/dogs/new_additions_dogs/dog-dog-intro

If you’re introducing a new dog to your home through adoption or foster, we wish you the best and hope you found this information helpful!

Nicole Bolin, Interim Board Secretary 

Keeping Pets Comfortable, Happy & Healthy As They Age

As our pets age, we have to make some adjustments to keep them comfortable, happy, and healthy.  These adjustments may be as small as adding a supplement (as guided by your Vet).  But they can be bigger things too.  At our house, we have primarily older or sick dogs as I am sure everyone has guessed.  Some of these dogs find it hard to go up and down steps because of aching joints.  Because of this when it came time for us to move we specifically bought a house that is one story.  We also installed a ramp from the back porch down to the yard rather than them having to go up and down even those three steps.  I can definitely say that the ramp not only helps the dogs but it helps my back too – I don’t have to carry anyone up and down!  I’m not saying sell your house to make it easier for your aging pets, that’s just something we did because we knew we would have older pets at our house all the time with what we do.

There are a lot of small ways that you can help.  Pet ramps are amazing – for both indoors and outdoors.  They can help your pets get on and off the couch so that they can still be with you and are comfortable.  They can be used for the bed as well if your pets sleep with you.  A ramp can be a lifesaver for the car too!  You can buy them online or at your local pet store, or if you are handy you can make your own.

As our pets age, their nutritional needs change as well.  At your annual visit be sure to talk to your vet about diet.  There are foods designed especially for senior pets, and there are supplements and vitamins that can be added to get the right balance for your pet.  Your Vet would be happy to advise you on what is best for your situation.

Hopefully the better we take care of our aging pets, the longer they will be with us!  For more ways, you can help your aging pet be comfortable, happy, and healthy check out this article: https://www.thesprucepets.com/aging-pet-care-awareness-3384785

Nicole Laber, Fospice Mom and Board Treasurer 

Toenail Care

As a dog owner keeping my dog’s toenails trimmed was always recommended to be a priority. It wasn’t until I started taking in homeless senior dogs that I realized why toenail care was such an important part of a dog’s healthy life. For whatever reason, these dogs will typically come to us with overgrown toenails that are causing them pain in their feet and even up into their joints. Then once you try to relieve the pain by trimming their toenails they are confused as to why you are touching their feet and causing them more discomfort. 

If you have not thought about the discomfort untrimmed toenails cause your dog please read the attached article. If you are not comfortable trimming your dog’s toenails, check out your local pet store and see if they offer nail trims. Groomers would be happy to assist with this service and so would your Vet’s office. Keeping our pets comfortable and healthy has many different responsibilities so please consider regular nail trims as one of them. 
Chastity Crowder, Fospice Mom and Board President